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    I don't really ever do this, but it's time to take a walk into something of a bit of a negative space to have a little chat around collaborations - or more importantly what isn't a collaboration.

    I've had many brands and businesses contact me, whether directly or through a PR agency, to ask about collaborating. Usually these will involve them sending over some product for me to test and try and then post about, and sometimes there may even be a little extra cash involved. This is something I would class as a collaboration. I know some people say you shouldn't just accept free product for your work, and I completely understand that argument, particularly if you're trying to grow your Instagram and make it a viable source of income. But for someone like me who just does it as something on the side and a bit of fun these days, I have no problem just receiving product in return for posting something; at the very least I'm getting the value of the product in return for my work.

    This however, is not a collaboration ...



    I've had many other examples pass through my Instagram DMs, but I think you get the idea.
    I know I'm not alone in this as I've seen bloggers and Instagrammers post about this issue before, but offering a discount on your product, which I still need to buy, and then asking me to then post about it on my feed, is NOT a collaboration.  I often find the brands and companies who try to offer these types of deals are the ones you see commenting on peoples photos asking them to contact them about a collaboration.

    I understand how this can come across - oh someone won't give you free product, poor you. But think of it from a more business perspective - essentially they are asking for me to pay to create content for them, they want me to pay to do my work in return for some 'possible exposure' on their channel if they decide to choose my image ..... would you want to do your work if you walked in and your boss said 'I need you to do this for me and just pay me $30 for it as well' - probably not.

    There's plenty of talk recently about how promising someone "exposure" in exchange for their work just doesn't quite cut it in the creative field, not to mention just "possible exposure". 

    No matter how big or small the company, brand or Insatgrammer may be, if you say you want to collaborate with someone, you need to follow up with a deal that is actually a collaboration and pays them in one way or another for their time - not simply propose something that will earn yourself some extra dollars from getting someone to buy your product.


    . 10/24/18 .

    That is NOT a Collaboration

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    . 10/24/18 .


    I don't really ever do this, but it's time to take a walk into something of a bit of a negative space to have a little chat around collaborations - or more importantly what isn't a collaboration.

    I've had many brands and businesses contact me, whether directly or through a PR agency, to ask about collaborating. Usually these will involve them sending over some product for me to test and try and then post about, and sometimes there may even be a little extra cash involved. This is something I would class as a collaboration. I know some people say you shouldn't just accept free product for your work, and I completely understand that argument, particularly if you're trying to grow your Instagram and make it a viable source of income. But for someone like me who just does it as something on the side and a bit of fun these days, I have no problem just receiving product in return for posting something; at the very least I'm getting the value of the product in return for my work.

    This however, is not a collaboration ...



    I've had many other examples pass through my Instagram DMs, but I think you get the idea.
    I know I'm not alone in this as I've seen bloggers and Instagrammers post about this issue before, but offering a discount on your product, which I still need to buy, and then asking me to then post about it on my feed, is NOT a collaboration.  I often find the brands and companies who try to offer these types of deals are the ones you see commenting on peoples photos asking them to contact them about a collaboration.

    I understand how this can come across - oh someone won't give you free product, poor you. But think of it from a more business perspective - essentially they are asking for me to pay to create content for them, they want me to pay to do my work in return for some 'possible exposure' on their channel if they decide to choose my image ..... would you want to do your work if you walked in and your boss said 'I need you to do this for me and just pay me $30 for it as well' - probably not.

    There's plenty of talk recently about how promising someone "exposure" in exchange for their work just doesn't quite cut it in the creative field, not to mention just "possible exposure". 

    No matter how big or small the company, brand or Insatgrammer may be, if you say you want to collaborate with someone, you need to follow up with a deal that is actually a collaboration and pays them in one way or another for their time - not simply propose something that will earn yourself some extra dollars from getting someone to buy your product.


    . 8/9/17 .


    As you're reading this I'll already be in Sydney attending the Priceline Beauty Prescription Live event. This week is full of Sydney adventures for me, because I'm also heading along to the 9 To Thrive event on the Friday and possibly the Saturday as well. The thing these events all have in common, aside from me knowing they're going to be heaps of fun, is I'm heading to them all alone (note: just found out someone I know will be attending the Priceline event, though I did say yes thinking I may have been going alone, but moving on). But that's what I wanted to quickly chat about today; not being afraid to do things alone.

    Now I feel like I'm in a funny situation sometimes. I grew up as an only child, so doing things alone and not always having someone, at least someone close to my age, by my side, is something I've always dealt with. So when it comes to general living day to day, being alone doesn't bother me, in fact I think I probably enjoy it more than the average person. However, when it comes to things like events, the idea of going and being alone, no matter how much time I spend with myself in day-to-day life, scares the crap out of me sometimes. Maybe it's coupled with the fact that going to an event usually means I'm going to a place I don't know to be surrounded by people I don't know and who have no clue who I really am. 

    I'm often invited to events in Sydney, which is two/three hours away from me, so often I don't go because the events themselves tend to only go for an hour or so meaning I'd spend more time in transport than at the event. But sometimes I wonder, if I did actually live in Sydney and therefore much closer and much more able to go to these events, would I go, or would the anxiety over the unknown still take over and stop me?

    Even though I went to this Priceline event last year and therefore know exactly what to expect, and now know I'll have a friend around as well, I'm still somewhat nervous thinking about it. My mind thinks about how there will be so many other bloggers and influencers there and they'll all look and be so much better than me, even though normally most people are super lovely. I think about how I'll need to talk to brand reps all day about myself and make small chit chat (which I really suck at and need to work on) and how I'll suck and it'll be exhausting, though probably 99% of the conversations I had last year were actually great and positive.

    What it comes down to is confidence, and as they say, sometimes you have to fake it till you make it; in this case faking you have self confidence until you have pretty much completely fooled yourself and it naturally comes. With anxiety, I find if something makes you anxious, the best way to deal with it is to do the thing that makes you anxious over and over again until it doesn't any longer. A bit of a 'throw yourself in the deep end' strategy, but I've found it works.

    I don't go to events often, mainly because I am so far away from them all, so the anxious fear still gets me in it's grips, but I've found it easier to wrangle my way out of it and force myself along these days.

    The main message I wanted to give to you all from this is; don't be afraid to do things, and especially don't be afraid to do them alone. Conquering a fear is an amazing feeling, and it feels even better when you manage to conquer it all by yourself. So for the rest of this year challenge yourself, if this is something you struggle with, do more things on your own, especially those things which scare you (provided they don't cause you harm of course), and let yourself feel liberated, in control and fierce!
    . 12/7/16 .


    This might open a can of worms but here we go.....

    Dear everyone who has a hatred towards bloggers and likes to call us a waste of space;

    If you're wondering where this post is coming from, it stems from a couple of rants, comments, whatever you feel like calling them, that did nothing more but express the dislike or hatred that some people seem to feel towards bloggers and feel the need to slap all over the Internet. As someone who is obviously a blogger myself, while I can 100% respect people's opinions and understand that not everyone will understand or like what I and many others on the Internet do, some of the things mentioned in these various posts struck certain nerves with me, and there were some things I just wanted to say in response.

    I won't be naming names or highlighting where I found these sources, just simply drawing out some of the points in the comments that I just thought were quite misinformed or simply wrong.

    One of these posts started with 'why bloggers are a waste of space'. This probably should have hurt me a little more than it did, but instead I simply had to laugh. Not just because of the words that followed, but also because I thought of all the influence bloggers are having in the world today, so clearly having, and couldn't understand how anyone could think that people who are clearly having a big influence are a waste of space. If my views, opinions and comments are so useless and such a waste of space, please tell me why major brands choose to pick up bloggers and get them to promote their product to their audience; actually I can tell you why. The number of brands and companies who turn to bloggers and Youtubers alike these days to promote their products, causes and messages is continuing to increase, and I don't see this trend halting any time in the near future. These brands are realising that bloggers are reaching the everyday consumer in a much more personal way than any celebrity or A-list person can, that they are more relatable than big Hollywood names. So as much as you might want to call me and many others on the Internet a waste of space, I'm pretty sure your favourite brands certainly don't think so.

    Reading some comments from another post made me nearly cry with laughter, because my background basically tore this post apart into tiny, tiny shreds, and frankly goes to show how little some people actually know, or bother to know, about the world of blogging before writing these things.

    Basically the comment went on to say that bloggers should get off the Internet and become authors or news anchors if we have something we want to say. First of all have you tried to get a job in either of those fields; good fucking luck, even if you have the qualifications that I have. They said we needed to go to Uni and study, to learn correct punctation and grammar before we start writing our opinions on anything, that we are nothing and we should respect those who have studied journalism. So here's my background; I completed a degree where I majored in journalism at University and in fact just finished my final year in my law degree as well, and now I'm going to study a Masters in Journalism; oh and I run a blog. I've had jobs in the professional journalism world and I've been a freelancer; I've done it all already. I did all of this while continuing to run my blog, so let me assure you there are certainly many bloggers out there who have all these apparent qualifications that you think we need; I personally would love to know the qualifications and degrees this certain person held. So I'm sorry but it is 100% wrong to sit there and paint us all with one simple, broad brushstroke. You say people need to respect those who have studied journalism, well I hate to break it to you, but I'm a blogger who has, so you're saying you and others need to respect me and the many others like me.

    I'm sure there are many bloggers out there who don't have the degrees and experience that I have and I don't think that in any way makes them less "qualified" to be a blogger; like that's even a term you can use in this field. To be honest, having certain qualifications and experience is becoming less and less the way of the world in certain fields. There are certain areas in life you need to be and should be qualified to work in, but many degrees and other qualifications are simply optional these days, especially anything to do with writing. Honestly, they teach you things you could sit down and learn yourself, and particularly in journalism, the only reason for having a degree is because so many people want a job in the field that you're better off having that completed degree written down on a piece of paper than not; it's not about the skills you learnt in that degree so much as just having confirmation you received a piece of paper with the words on it like everyone else. So many people are following their own unconventional paths now to grow their careers in various fields. So telling someone they need a degree to do something, particularly in a space like the Internet, is just silly talk.

    Not to mention that people can sit here and tell us to go get a job with a real journalism company, go be a news anchor but do you realise how one-sided the news from those outlets really is, how misinformed those outlets are sometimes actually making you - bloggers (for the majority) will give you all the information along with their own opinion - honestly it's probably a more unbiased news source then that 7pm news report you watched last night.

    I could continue on more but I don't want this post to get any longer than it already is. Basically I feel people cut down blogging because they think it's easy, doesn't take much skill or brains or anything, is wrong. People blog because they're passionate about writing and about certain topic areas. Blogging is a passion and frankly that's what you need to do it because there's no guarantee doing this is going to ever sustain your life, it may simply be something you do for fun on the side for your entirety. Like I say about many things, if it was that easy to do and to continue doing, everyone would be doing it; but they're not. Clearly these people who are writing these hateful things towards people like myself aren't blogging, and if I was to guess, I'd say more often than not they've never even given it a go - so quite frankly they have no idea what they're talking about.

    I'm quite lucky in that everyone who surrounds me in my life is positive about what I do and think it's great that I do it. Those of us who are bloggers or do anything on the Internet are not strangers to hate on the Internet, in fact we become immune to it, and that's why posts like the ones I talked about today don't hurt me but instead make me laugh. Even though they don't hurt me and 9 times out of 10 we should ignore them, I think every now and then us bloggers need to say a little something back to these people to remind, not just them, but everyone, that they're quite frankly, you're wrong.